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Questions, questions and more questions! They are the most interesting thing that we can ask when we are on a first date with someone. You just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview! Questions are the best way to get to know someone and show them we are interested in them. On a first date you just have to be careful not to overdo it and turn it into an interview!

Dale Carnegie in his amazing must-read book, “How to win friends and influence people” writes about the power of asking questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

You’ve probably been to a party and you have been the one asking the questions and doing most of the listening? If you have you will probably attest that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting – funny that! You probably did less that twenty percent of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you’re a guy and ask some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, thus saving yourself a lot of legwork trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and listening is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do to anyone.

If you’re a lady and want to brush a guy’s ego and make him feel good, then just ask lots of questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-stroking that can happen, if you ask and listen there is also a genuine side to the picture as well. Because the people who are genuinely interested in someone else and ask great questions are the people who are always popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here’s 21 questions to ask to get conversation rolling. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions – which are always better.

Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you’re a waiter and one of your customers was rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or worst still spit in their soup?

2. What was your favourite Halloween dress up costume as a child and why?

3. If you could choose to have dinner with five people – real of fictional – who would you invite and why?

4. If you could suddenly become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

7. What do you regret the most in your life?

8. What’s the funniest experience in your whole entire life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much smaller or taller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. How old were you when you had your first proper date and did you kiss them?

11. What’s the most horrible lie you have ever told someone in your life? Where you caught out and who was it that you told it to?

12. If you instantly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. When you meet someone for the first time and you do not like them what would you normally do?

14. What is more important to you in a woman – good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!

15. Have you ever had sex in a public place? If so were you seen?

16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could change the age that you lost your virginity, would you?

18. What turns you off the most sexually?

19. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?

20. Have you ever been caught masturbating? If you did, how old where you and who caught you?

21. Have you ever serial sex – with one person and then been with a different person somewhere else within the same day?

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